February 1997 Gratitude excerpts

  • phone calls from my best friend
  • the excitement of love unfolding
  • cool, dewy mornings when birds chirp and light fog blankets everything
  • hearing my wind chimes in the night breezes
  • good books that “turn up the volume” of living
  • an unexpected smile sent my way
  • good meals with great wine and spicy conversation
  • funny greeting cards
  • soft bed linens that smell like dryer sheets
  • the mysteries of daily living
  • care packages that arrive unexpectedly
  • lazy Sunday mornings
  • blues music
  • good, strong coffee
  • morning rain
  • delighting in my BFF’s new boyfriend because all the yummy feelings are a marinade for the soul
  • grateful that I’ve experienced my share of interesting and varied love affairs
  • I’ve never seen a rat
  • warm days in January
  • laughing too hard at dumb things
  • knowing that somehow everything gets done
  • hearing from old friends
  • unexpected moments of free time
  • the little green lizards around my house (and occasionally INSIDE my house)
  • super glad that I didn’t buy my now ex-boyfriend “Beer of the Month” last Valentines Day since we broke up 20 minutes later
  • regular outings with friends that you can look forward to
  • good champagne
  • late night snacks after work
  • nice bed linens with high thread count
  • oceanside lunches with good conversation, better wine, and warm breezes
  • crabmeat in anything
  • the power of forgiveness
  • especially little green lizards
  • real life mysteries about people in my life – ONE day I will know the answers to all the “why?” moments
  • meeting famous people when they eat in our restaurant
  • my self-confidence and the courage it lends me
  • wise, solid, no BS advice
  • little answers to little wishes
  • upcoming events that I look forward to attending
  • car phones and the feeling of security they provide
  • handsome men who are as friendly as they are hot
  • second chances and withheld judgements
  • bursts of energy
  • decisions that encourage and support personal sanity
  • email
  • conversations with people who challenge me to see the world in a different way
  • champagne brunches with friends
  • talking with girlfriends about new love interests and crushes
  • mimosas made with the good champagne
  • falling asleep quickly without insomnia
  • discussions about good books
  • my beautiful home that I still can’t believe is mine
  • surprises
  • digging in the dirt to repot my herbs (I grow all of my own) for cooking
  • knowing that I made another person’s day a little better
  • being able to pay all my bills & still eat out
  • having the kind of friends who just “drop by”
  • my organizational skills
  • my increasing knowledge about food and wine
  • gentlemen – seems to be a dying species
  • trust amongst good friends
  • wonder at how a memory can be triggered by something as subtle as a shift in temperature
  • unexpected romantic confessions that make me blush to hear them
  • my plants and flowers on my porch
  • warm, humid, sultry days when you just need to be naked
  • fairs and festivals – and funnel cake – ALWAYS funnel cake
  • answered prayers – mine and others
  • good writing pens
  • the little berries that just appeared on my plants
  • holding my temper
  • new opportunities
  • gentlemen who show up at my house bearing good wine
  • feeling kisses on my face when I am still sleeping
  • the moment you realize someone is noticing the little things and it is actually ok
  • musicians with more talent than the crowd in the bar probably deserves
  • waking up to someone cooking breakfast in my kitchen
  • letters received in the mail (real mail – not email)
  • I got to taste a rare wine – a sherry from 1830 – extraordinary opportunity
  • feeling included by people I enjoy
  • knowing the answers on my tests – especially in physics
  • peace returning after my soul was disturbed
  • planning the perfect menu for dinner parties and hosting them successfully

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